Why your relationship is boring

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New relationships are always exciting.

Parties in a new relationship are normally very  happy about meeting each other. But as the relationship gets older, things begin to change. Partners sometimes begin to feel bored.

Here are eight causes of boredom in your relationship?

(I) When you are ignored or you ignore

This is one of the most reasons why people feel boredom in their relationship. Giving a listening ear is more important than you think. Allow your partner to voice out his expressions if you want the relationship to grow.

(ii) When you always hang out with friends

Instead of hanging out with your partner, you value hanging out with your friends all the time. The relationship will never work if you continue this attitude.

(iii) When you don’t spend quality time together

After returning from work, some partners always give the excuse that they are knocked for six by stress. This way, they tend to drift away from communication. Whatever the reason, reasonable or not, never allow stress to not spend, not just time, but quality time with your spouse.

(ix) When you feel controlled

There is nothing annoying than seeing the person you love controlling you as if you are a robot. Every human is given the freedom to choose for himself or herself.

(v) When you don’t set goals for your relationship

Before now, you sat together and set goals and you worked hard to reach those goals. But as time goes on, you no longer feel the need to set new goals in the relationship. You cannot be in this life without setting goals with the person you love

(vi) When there is disrespect

Disrespect and depreciation in partners value goes along way to make a relationship boring. It causes avoidance of your partner and gradually indirectly kills the trust. Respect is reciprocal.

(vii) When you argue alot

These majorly makes the both parties boring because you stay away as much as you can from each other because you don’t want to argue or fight. Thus killing the relationship and leading you to spend more time with friends instead of your partner.

(ix) Fighting

Fighting doesn’t only make a relationship boring, but scary and unsafe too. It destroys the love, trust, care and respect. It is one of the biggest relationship killer. Sometimes if care is not taken and things not resolved on time, it can lead to loss of life. Fighting should be avoided in any relationship.

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