Everyone wants to marry the right person including you.
Every person is scared of getting married to the wrong person. A lot of people ask, how they would know that they’re with the right or wrong person.
One common deduction from questions asked when it comes to relationship matters, is that they don’t want to make marital mistakes, everyone wants to marry Mr and Mrs Right. I’m sure, you reading this is also among these persons I’m talking about. There is nothing wrong with that. The importance of marrying the right person cannot be over emphasized, because who you marry will impact every single area of your life, it can prolong or shorten your life, it can make your life miserable or blissful.
One important mistake you should pray that God will help you to avoid is marital mistake. A lot of people in relationship today are in doubt and in confusion, wondering if they are with the right person or about to make a mistake of their lifetime. If that is your case, then, this article is meant for you.
Here are seven signs that show you are with the wrong person;
1. Lack of Peace Of Mind
Lack of peace in a relationship is enough sign that you’re with the wrong person. Peace of mind in your relationship is often the voice of God telling you to go ahead. The right person will always give you peace of mind.
If you lack peace of mind, check it, you may be with the wrong person.
When you observe that since a person came into your life, you don’t know what your life is all about again, you don’t know your left from your right. You are just confused about anything and everything.
When you are in this kind of situation, you don’t need a prophet to tell you to borrow legs and run for your life. God is not the author of confusion.
There are different forms of abuse. It could be physical abuse such as beating, hitting, slapping, punching etc. Emotional abuse such as neglect, manipulation, blackmail, cursing etc., Sexual abuse such as rape, harassment, sexual disrespect etc.
When you are with a person that beats, hits, punches and abuse you and makes you cry all the time, you better run.
4. Lack Of Progress
When there’s no progress in your life, your life becomes stagnant.
When there’s no improvement or progress spiritually, intellectually, financially, and otherwise, that maybe a sign too. Check it. Has any good thing happen in your life since that person came?.
5. Lack Of Conviction
Conviction is not just knowing but a strong knowledge that something is right. We also call this inner witness.
So, when there’s no conviction, you’ve prayed, fasted, sought for counsel yet you’re full of doubt, God maybe saying something.
6. People’s Testimonies
The Bible says that, through the mouth of 2 or 3 people, every matter shall be established. Sometimes, when God wants to deliver us from danger, He uses people to warn us.
So, when you have a lot of people, not just 2 or 3, warning you about a particular person, pause and think. Don’t neglect it. An adage says, when a child is crying and pointing his hand at a place, if his mother is not there, his father will surely be there. Pause and think. Ask questions for clarification.
7. Questionable Character
When he smokes, drinks and visits the night clubs, when she keeps and follows 20 men concurrently, these are warning signs that you maybe dealing with a potential cheat, womanizer and manizer.
Don’t neglect questionable characters. Ask questions. Demand an end to them. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.